Acceptance

You know when you see darkness all around you, it doesn't mean that no hopes around, it means there is a door that is closed. Go and open it.

Life puts us in situations where we are being judged many a times. But do you wanna keep those judgements forever?
Do you wanna cry over those shits everytime and be firm in a place crying like a baby and running away.
No, absolutely not. Just stop moulding yourself according to others choice, just accept whatever you are. You know yourself better than anyone else. Anyone misunderstood you, make them understand once, twice, thrice ; still if they are not understanding.
Just give a shit about it and move on.

You are not born to impress everyone. Stop questioning yourself, stop scaring yourself with everyone else's standard coz no-one is best, everyone have flaws, scars. So why to go and match their standard. I mean who knows if there is someone else trying to match your standard. So just give yourself a chance, tell yourself how much you love yourself. Because it will be just you at the end. None of those standard seekers gonna come and applaud when you stand on your own. They just know to pull you back everytime.

Stop looking yourself in others mirror coz it's not clean so what you gonna see will be ugly. Use your own mirror, you look beautiful in there as you are beautiful